Hey,
Okay. So here is my 'personal' mesage you are looking for I guess. How can you say I am working off assumptions? You have been nothing but cold and unapproachable the only two times you have been around her. Then she trys to talk to you on fb and you ignore her friend request. Of Course we are going to think she is not welcome! Look how you have been acting. Her and dave cleared whatever the hell it was back then. I don't know why you still have a grudge with her? She is so sick of it and I am so sick of feeling stuck. Why would you bother inviting me to something like that when you didn't invite her, Come On Danuta. And if this is still about the money then I will give you the stupid 3 bucks for her salad that night. You would still be mad at Kate and Joh if Sue didn't send you the money to cover it, so I'll gladly give you her money so we can start putting this behind us. This is so stupid. You can't say that im making dumb assumptions cause look how you have acted towards her! And to say we're immature??! You won't even accept her stupid friend thing on fb so you two can start building a friendship again! If you're being so cold in person how else is she supposed to talk to you besides the internet. This is so lame and I am tired of hearing about it from all sides. I am obviously standing by Kelly and I am sorry if you disagree with that.
Gf
Okay. So here is my 'personal' mesage you are looking for I guess. How can you say I am working off assumptions? You have been nothing but cold and unapproachable the only two times you have been around her. Then she trys to talk to you on fb and you ignore her friend request. Of Course we are going to think she is not welcome! Look how you have been acting. Her and dave cleared whatever the hell it was back then. I don't know why you still have a grudge with her? She is so sick of it and I am so sick of feeling stuck. Why would you bother inviting me to something like that when you didn't invite her, Come On Danuta. And if this is still about the money then I will give you the stupid 3 bucks for her salad that night. You would still be mad at Kate and Joh if Sue didn't send you the money to cover it, so I'll gladly give you her money so we can start putting this behind us. This is so stupid. You can't say that im making dumb assumptions cause look how you have acted towards her! And to say we're immature??! You won't even accept her stupid friend thing on fb so you two can start building a friendship again! If you're being so cold in person how else is she supposed to talk to you besides the internet. This is so lame and I am tired of hearing about it from all sides. I am obviously standing by Kelly and I am sorry if you disagree with that.
Gf
MY RESPONSE
Dec 20, 11:37pm
1. Kelly never apologized for August. Nor did she apologize for every hurtful thing she said. Nor did she apologize for all the shit she spewed about me when you all hung out. Friends do that? Friends talk shit about other friends when they aren't there? Sorry, but I don't consider that friendship. That's a sham. And I'm sick of shit in my life- why keep it? PS- She and Dave DID not make peace- they only argued about her great and classy comment on how we are going to be flipping burgers. Don't worry, I'll hold the fucking onions.
2. Cold? Because all of a sudden I'm supposed to be shitting rainbows and butterflies when I see her? Forget that she totally screwed me over in August and disrespected not only me, my boyfriend but what friendship means? Friendship is not walking out on friends. Friendship is not talking shit or being malicious. I don't need that. And she is the one who wronged ME, why should I be trying to make contact- saying hello first? Please, should I kiss her ass while I stoop that low for you to kick it? I'm sick of being shit on. Don't piss on my face and call it rain- because I'm going to call it piss.
3. Money? That's all it is with you people! Money and statuses and material things! I lost more than three dollars that night. I lost my confidence in friends, friendship and trusting you all. Joe and Kate apologized, and I saw them change. And we are working on it- it's not 100% and it's not about money with me- it's about respect. I'm from Springfield, and I'm proud of that fact- no one messes with me, my humanity nor who I am as a person. Apparently, that night I was such threat that even her brother wanted to come over with her dad "incase I started trouble?" Please. Go get your own reality show. This all about my party and why she didn't get in- why didn't she care before?
4. Immaturity is this facebook shit. Seriously, I invited everyone on my list. And the invite says GUESTS ARE INVITED TO BRING GUESTS. Yeah I didn't add Kelly, thus I didn't invite her. You could have asked to bring her. I might have even said yes because I don't CARE. Why should I add her? Has she even approached me to change? Has she even asked to talk or to forgive? No apparently she just talked, what do I smell? Oh yeah- SHIT. I'm sorry but if you don't have the guts to tell me what you think about me to my face, then don't bother talking to me. I don't deal with passive aggressive bitches.
5. I never had a problem with you. And I understand you two are together and you'll stick up for her- but I'm still wondering what you're sticking up for? What did I do? I never talked shit. I'm a classy, grade A broad- what does this girl do to even deserve me thinking about her? Nothing. What have I said about her? Nothing. What have I done towards her? Nothing. What does she mean to me? Nothing. We are not friends. End of story. She means nothing to me, and she lost most of my confidence before the dinner even happened- the dinner was just the final straw. I'm almost a little disappointed with myself that I let the shit show go that far.
6. No offense Greg- but who the fuck, excuse my French, are you? Who are you to tell me I have wronged your significant other when I think I've made it clear that I'm done? Also- as I stated before, why should I be kissing ass to someone who has disrespected me, my significant other, my friends, told me I was a no one through facebook statuses (wow take a bow!) and has barely moved an inch to do something about it. No remorse at all- just malice! She should be talking to ME if she has a problem right now- NOT YOU. I apologize for nothing, because I have done nothing. And that is fact. I treated you and Kelly with respect, I never partook in any shit talking fests, COUGH COUGH, nor did make "jokes". She means nothing- isn't even worth my time.
7. Seriously- you're acting like a vagina. This could have been avoided if you called or even messaged me calmly asking me about the party and telling me LIKE A MATURE ADULT that you're a little bothered about that fact. This all could have been handled rationally and respectfully. But instead you make a status- wow, so original- and blow up my spot making yourself look stupid. I guess this was a test, and you failed. Both of you because I know you're not doing this alone.
Well. I wish the both of you good health, good cheer and happy holidays. Sometimes things don't get fixed, and sometimes you don't get what you want. That's life. I really hope for the best for you two.
-Danuta
2. Cold? Because all of a sudden I'm supposed to be shitting rainbows and butterflies when I see her? Forget that she totally screwed me over in August and disrespected not only me, my boyfriend but what friendship means? Friendship is not walking out on friends. Friendship is not talking shit or being malicious. I don't need that. And she is the one who wronged ME, why should I be trying to make contact- saying hello first? Please, should I kiss her ass while I stoop that low for you to kick it? I'm sick of being shit on. Don't piss on my face and call it rain- because I'm going to call it piss.
3. Money? That's all it is with you people! Money and statuses and material things! I lost more than three dollars that night. I lost my confidence in friends, friendship and trusting you all. Joe and Kate apologized, and I saw them change. And we are working on it- it's not 100% and it's not about money with me- it's about respect. I'm from Springfield, and I'm proud of that fact- no one messes with me, my humanity nor who I am as a person. Apparently, that night I was such threat that even her brother wanted to come over with her dad "incase I started trouble?" Please. Go get your own reality show. This all about my party and why she didn't get in- why didn't she care before?
4. Immaturity is this facebook shit. Seriously, I invited everyone on my list. And the invite says GUESTS ARE INVITED TO BRING GUESTS. Yeah I didn't add Kelly, thus I didn't invite her. You could have asked to bring her. I might have even said yes because I don't CARE. Why should I add her? Has she even approached me to change? Has she even asked to talk or to forgive? No apparently she just talked, what do I smell? Oh yeah- SHIT. I'm sorry but if you don't have the guts to tell me what you think about me to my face, then don't bother talking to me. I don't deal with passive aggressive bitches.
5. I never had a problem with you. And I understand you two are together and you'll stick up for her- but I'm still wondering what you're sticking up for? What did I do? I never talked shit. I'm a classy, grade A broad- what does this girl do to even deserve me thinking about her? Nothing. What have I said about her? Nothing. What have I done towards her? Nothing. What does she mean to me? Nothing. We are not friends. End of story. She means nothing to me, and she lost most of my confidence before the dinner even happened- the dinner was just the final straw. I'm almost a little disappointed with myself that I let the shit show go that far.
6. No offense Greg- but who the fuck, excuse my French, are you? Who are you to tell me I have wronged your significant other when I think I've made it clear that I'm done? Also- as I stated before, why should I be kissing ass to someone who has disrespected me, my significant other, my friends, told me I was a no one through facebook statuses (wow take a bow!) and has barely moved an inch to do something about it. No remorse at all- just malice! She should be talking to ME if she has a problem right now- NOT YOU. I apologize for nothing, because I have done nothing. And that is fact. I treated you and Kelly with respect, I never partook in any shit talking fests, COUGH COUGH, nor did make "jokes". She means nothing- isn't even worth my time.
7. Seriously- you're acting like a vagina. This could have been avoided if you called or even messaged me calmly asking me about the party and telling me LIKE A MATURE ADULT that you're a little bothered about that fact. This all could have been handled rationally and respectfully. But instead you make a status- wow, so original- and blow up my spot making yourself look stupid. I guess this was a test, and you failed. Both of you because I know you're not doing this alone.
Well. I wish the both of you good health, good cheer and happy holidays. Sometimes things don't get fixed, and sometimes you don't get what you want. That's life. I really hope for the best for you two.
-Danuta
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I feel amazing. I feel like I just lost a whole load off my chest. Seriously, this repression habit has to STOP.
I feel like tomorrow is going to be amazing. I'm going to grab life and take it and make it mine tomorrow. Tomorrow, I start living the life I want. How else could I? No one will for me. So here I go...hopefully all I have is good news from here on out.
This revenge is so sweet. Don't you see? THIS IS MY TIME. It's like the Count of Monte Cristo story, and I know it will have a bad ending but I'm just enjoying this high right now. I need this high right now.
I hope the New Years party I'm throwing is amazing. And I really hope everyone enjoys it- apparently it's making quite a stir LOL.
Peace and Love,
Danuta
PS- Listen to Forever by Drake/Yeezy/Weezy/ Eminem. I'm in such a trashy rap kick- it gives me confidence.
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